Rachael Kirkconnell says she and Mames James haven’t had sex in ‘years’

Income the person on the label Rachael Kirkconnell opens up about his sex life – or, lack thereof.

“I feel like a virgin,” Kirkconnell, 29, reported on the October 16 episode of the “extra dirty” podcast. “I haven’t had sex for longer than you think. It’s been years.”

Kirkconnell, who separates from the former Bachelor Matt James In January, the keeper explained Hallie Batchelder That after going for a long time without physical intimacy, he just doesn’t want to ‘give it to anyone.’ Instead, he wants to ensure that his next sexual encounter will be “not good.”

She continued: “I think that’s why I’m a popular girl,” she continued. “Because I feel like how we felt when we said, like in high school. I can’t say that everyone felt like this, and you know that everyone makes losing your virginity so big? ‘ That’s how I feel. I’m like, ‘I just can’t give up to anybody.’ I want it to be special. “

Kirkconnell and James, 33, called it quits earlier this year after four years of dating. The twosome met at the age of 25 A bachelorwhich was released in 2021. After James announced the breakup via Instagram, Kirkconnell says he later shared a photo with her shortly after the breakup while on vacation in Tokyo.

“I think I’ve come to realize that a lot of it wasn’t anything, or my fault or my problem,” Kirkconnell said while sharing his side of the story on an episode of the “Cally Daddy” Podcast. “And I think it helped that I had that conversation with him and heard those things from him. But even if I didn’t, ‘it wasn’t too important to let them in on my mistake.'”

While she appears to be “more dirty,” Kirkconnell said, she’s not “single” as she and James call it quits and “were not” any other apps. While he notes that he doesn’t ‘judge’ anyone who chooses to look for love online, he isn’t sure they “won’t work” for him.

Kirkconnell also shared that he feels like he can be dangerous. When Batchelder read the definition of vulnerability as ‘a way of having sex where one finds sexual attraction only after making a strong emotional bond with another person, I think it’s me. “

“I would say, ‘Wow, that person is really attractive.’ Obviously I find them really attractive, I think they’re really hot, but I don’t care about that, because they can still be like a bad person or they can make me completely me,” he explained. “I think their attraction can only come to you. Maybe it’s my problem, I don’t know.”

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Kirkconnell then suggested that “everyone” be a risk taker because it seems like “such a healthy thing to do.” When Batchelder asked him if he was also attracted to women, Kirkconnell said, “I don’t think so, I don’t know,” but then pointed out, “it’s all a matter of perception, isn’t it?”

While he was not entirely sure about his sexuality, he insisted that the philosophy of the relative risk of ‘having an emotional connection’ with someone before having sex with him.

“Don’t think I can go home with anyone,” she said. “I have to feel safe and comfortable with them and invest spiritually in some way the way I saw us, I don’t advertise it to them…